Sometimes we (V) compare a person (X) with another person (Y) who has similar qualities and like/dislike the person (X). For example, I may compare your personality, mannerisms etc with that of Anthony Robbins, and builds upon the bond [Hope you like the example J ]
I may not like somebody else (X) because he looks like some villain (Y).
I would like to know how this is seen in NLP. Here X doesnot necessarily model Y. They share common attributes as seen by us (V). That is, V does model-comparison of X and Y, and makes judgements.
If there is no name for it, I would like to name it as “Subjective Comparison” {Copyrighted J)
I think this understanding/awareness is significant in relationships. This leads to prejudice.
As V does comparison, V uses language like
“Somehow I like the person..” (Positive effect)
“I don’t know why I don’t like the person..” (Negative effect)
“You often remind me of my friend…” (Positive/Negative effect).
Okay, now we need to see where this awareness is useful. If X realizes V has positive/negative impression on X, X has to find from V what makes V believe so.
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